That's why I suggest to people to:
(even I have to do it, constantly. Its a task but well worth it, if you want to aid in reaching your highest potential through Christ...)
"Check your motivations..."
Why are you doing what you are doing?
And are you doing it to get gratification for yourself
Are you doing it to be a blessing to someone else?
Do you really WANT to be a blessing to this person
Are you just doing it so that other people will think you are a "NICE PERSON...?"
There are questions that people need to start asking themselves and once they do they will open the door that walks them toward Gods perfect peace.